Do you take the upper hand in love? Your choice: Apple You love your lover very much, but the way is sometime extreme. You always want to give the best to him/her, regardless of whether the real needs of the other side. This imposed love makes him/her feel very tired, so from time to time reject your kindness, and you are full of grievances, feeling that you pay so much, but do not appreciate each other. Finally, two people love each other, but difficult to live in harmony, always in a state of tension, and then deep feelings will be bad.